Should you wait to be in a relationship?
Should you open up to a loving relationship now or should you wait to have that as a reward only after you accomplish all your goals?
Let me know your thoughts below.
Love,
Mira
Is Love a Reward? Can You Have Success and Love?
Thanks for the Nice and enlightning video ,somewhere I was doing the same mistake to make myself eligible for love after having turn into other person and I actually keep on getting lesser love ,so I will keep in mind your valuable advice to accept myself for love the way I am as 7 years passed making me fit into that lovable category and feeling self guilt about myself
Wow! I never realized how much this applies.to us us long time married folks -who think your advice is targeted to those who are still angle . It’s totally on point for everyone: and makes you think about patterns and ruts we can get into if out partner or we withhold love in this way. Thanks.
Namaste!
Typo-,meant by Single!
Oh dear, this is so great. I could really feel the love flowing. Plugged in! I love that. Yes, yes, yes. Thank you so much for all the great work/love you share. You just look beaming with light/love. Thank you. I’m so happy to see all your happiness and grace. Just magnificent.
Bingo! I am brought back to Chapter 9, You Have the Right to Love Yourself, and Serena’s story. It starts with self-love. “Even before our souls were born, we have been wanted, treasured and loved.” That chapter transformed my life. When you can truly love yourself, you then find love everywhere. Maybe the next step would be to love without expectation. When and if the person you “love” no longer helps you to reflect “who you really are,” then you love them and let them go…..without expecting them to change for you or for the relationship. I know full well the repercussions of conditional love. Like you suggested, end that cycle. Yes!!! Yes!! Thank you Mira. You warm my heart with all of your messages. Sending YOU love!!
Thankyou Mira , i keep getting drawn back to your information your wisdom and you big smile of Love. Your voice is soothing to my soul. i listen to your Trust meditation often and my day always gets better. Just thank you from the depths of my heart and soul. You have enriched my life through your you-tube chats and your book was just Awesome will be re-reading it again soon.
Unconditional love
from Danielle
Thank you, Danielle! Thank you for the love and joy your little note here gives me!
This is a beautiful, timely message Mira. I have had difficulty seeing this with my own children. I have worked on healing other unhealthy patterns and on a subconscious level I knew this one would be next. I can heal this pattern so that my children and their children can benefit.
Sendinf you love,
Eva
Thank you so much, Eva! Your children are so blessed to have you!
OMG,you are so loving I get so much love only by looking at you. Thank you so much!
Thank you so much, Ima! Thank you! I am sending you big hugs!
Here is a short poem I wrote quite some time ago.
The Fabric of Life
Each of us is a single Thread
Woven by Love
Into a tapestry
of relationships.
Called Life.
©Bill Montague 2005
Bill, this is so beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing it with me!
When I grew up I always heard this statement: “you need to earn love by doing good things for others”. Deep inside of me I knew that idea was worng, but only until today I could see very clearly that I was holding the belief that “love is a reward” and I havve been working hard to earn it all these years…
Thank you for this video, it came at the perfect moment!
Much love to you!
Pilar, thank you for sharing with me! Remind yourself — Love is a blessing! I could never earn love because I am already deeply, completely and profoundly loved! So all I have to do is trust love, open to it, invite it in and have it walk beside me and nourish me as I do my work of doing good things for others and follow my purpose in the world.
Sending you oceans of love!
Mira, just this morning I reminded myself that I had to succeed on my own terms before I could have love in my life. Why? Because what if I became dependent on someone else for my security–that would not be good! I also had decided it was too late for love, anyway. Then I open your video just now…like a piece of synchronicity just so exact in its messaging. Yes, reward was my experience of love with my parents–I have never looked it that way before. It feels like a clear wind of change sweeping through me, just like that, on the instant. How can this be–but it is.
Thank you, very much. It is like an electric current of awareness.
Regina, I am so thrilled! So thrilled and delighted for the shift you experience and how synchronous it is for you!!! I am sending you oceans of love!
Thanks for sharing this thought-provoking and inspiring message. I have been telling myself that Love is a luxury, and that I will need to “work on myself” to have Love in my life. The work ethic and delayed gratification may have their place, but not when it comes to Love. Thanks for reminding me of that.
I am so happy to help with this shift in consciousness, David!
Thank you. I’m very happy to have come across you and your teachings. Gentle and loving. Love is what we all are 🙂
I am so happy we connected! I look forward to continue to share with you!
This is so true, Mira! So many people believe they can only be loved if they have a high enough salary, important job title, beach home, nice car, lots of friends, etc… The truth is that any relationship that begins because of material wealth and status is not true love. If someday you lose your money and your job and as a result your spouse divorces you, that person never loved you. They loved your money and your things. They loved how important and good you made them look around their friends and family because they were too insecure to live a fulfilling life true to themselves. I have learned in life you cannot make people love you. Some people will be drawn to and attracted to our true nature and spirit and others won’t. There is no explanation for it. It is a beautiful mystery. What is important is that we have the wisdom to stay true to our divine nature and not change ourselves to please the people who are not attracted to us and therefore will never love us. Trying to please people by compromising who we really are will make us lose ourselves and will never bring us to a fulfilling and loving relationship.
David, so beautifully said — a beautiful mystery! I am sending you all my love!
Beautifully said. Thank you, Mira. And sending oceans of love right back to you