Teach to Understand: A Line From John’s Story in Beyond Past Lives

“You have to teach to understand.” The Higher Self spoke these words during my regression session with John, and you can read his full story in my book Beyond Past Lives. His lesson in this life is to develop understanding, and the Higher Self gave him a way to do it: teach. It’s a practice anyone can use, starting with the book itself.

The line from John’s session

I first shared this moment on my blog in 2011. During our regression, John’s Higher Self said his lesson in this life is to develop his understanding. To that end, it encouraged him to teach, saying:

“You have to teach to understand.”

I love the wisdom in these words. I have found out that the more I share with people, the more I read and write on a certain idea the deeper my understanding becomes. And my inquisitiveness and desire for a deeper understanding are always brought about by the things that are going on in my life.

Adopt the “teach to understand” approach as a conscious tool to help you further your own learning and growth. When faced with changes meditate on the lessons. Every situation is there to serve you. Seek to understand what are the benefits that those challenges provide you with and then share those ideas with people. The more you share the greater your insight will become. Does the method of sharing matter? No. It could be through a story, through a song, through a poem, through a drawing or even a simple comment extended to a stranger. What matters is that you give a voice to the wisdom welling inside you. For we are all here to constantly inspire each other and by doing that uplift ourselves.

Why John’s story matters in the book

John’s story is one of the most unusual in Beyond Past Lives. In his regressions, his lives overlapped in time. In the book, I describe how he was reborn in 1950 even though he had passed away in 1978, before being reincarnated again in 1946, and how he even glimpsed a future life.

Experiences like John’s opened the door to the book’s central idea: all of our lives are simultaneous, unfolding now, and each one is connected to the others. If you’ve ever wondered how a past life could take place after a later one, his chapter is the place to start.

Read John’s full story

I won’t retell John’s sessions here. The full account, with its overlapping lives, its glimpse of the future and the Higher Self’s guidance, is waiting for you in Beyond Past Lives. You can find the book on my site or order it from Amazon:

Teach to understand as a reading practice

Here’s a way to bring John’s lesson into how you read. As you move through Beyond Past Lives, share what you learn. The more I share with people, and the more I read and write on an idea, the deeper my understanding becomes. The same can be true for you as a reader.

Try this simple practice:

  1. Read one chapter. Take your time with the stories and exercises.
  2. Summarize it in your own words. Write three sentences as if you were explaining it to a friend.
  3. Share one idea. Tell someone about it over coffee, in a message or in a reflection you post.
  4. Notice what deepens. Write down any new insight that came while you explained it.
  5. Try the exercise. Each chapter includes practices. Teaching them to someone else can show you what you’ve truly absorbed.

Ideas worth teaching from the book

Beyond Past Lives offers many concepts that become clearer the moment you try to explain them:

  • Simultaneous time, which John’s story illustrates so vividly.
  • Parallel lives, created by the choices we make and the ones we don’t.
  • The Higher Self, available to guide you in any moment.
  • The world as a reflection of what’s within you.
  • Forgiveness and self-love as paths to healing.

Pick one that intrigues you and see how your understanding grows as you share it.

Why explaining works

When you explain an idea, you have to organize it. You notice where your grasp is firm and where it’s still forming. You find words for something you had only sensed. Each time you share, you meet the idea from a slightly new angle, and your understanding grows a little deeper.

Sharing in any form

Some readers form small book circles. Others journal and share selected pages with a partner. Choose what feels natural to you.

When challenges become teachers

The next time a challenge arrives, try reading John’s story alongside your own experience. Write down what the situation is teaching you, then share one insight with someone you trust. You’ll notice how much clearer the lesson becomes once you put it into words.

For readers new to regression

If you’ve never experienced a regression, the book is an accessible starting point. It begins with the basics and builds from there. For a short introduction first, read What Is Past Life Regression? and visit the Past Lives hub. To learn more about the wise voice that spoke to John, read What the Higher Self Says in a Past Life Regression.

Keep a reading journal

Capture what you learn as you go. My Past Life Regression Journal has space for reflections, questions for your Higher Self and the insights that surface when you share. Paired with the book, it helps you track your understanding chapter by chapter.

Explore your own lessons

After reading John’s story, many people want to ask their own Higher Self about their life lesson. If that’s you, I’d love to guide you. Learn about sessions on my Work With Me page.

We are all here to constantly inspire each other, and by doing that we uplift ourselves. Start with John’s story, then share what it teaches you.

Feel called to guide others through their past lives?

My Past Life Regressionist Certification is 4 days of on demand, experiential training with a complete session script, practice with feedback and a professional certificate. You can also add 1:1 time with me.

Explore the Certification

Frequently asked questions

What does “you have to teach to understand” mean?

It means sharing what you learn deepens your own understanding. John’s Higher Self gave him this guidance during his regression session with Mira Kelley.

Where can I read John’s story?

John’s full story is in Mira Kelley’s book Beyond Past Lives, available on mirakelley.com and Amazon.

What is unusual about John’s past lives?

In Beyond Past Lives, his lives overlap in time, and he even glimpses a future life, illustrating the book’s idea of simultaneous lives.

How can I use “teach to understand” while reading the book?

Read a chapter, summarize it in your own words, share one idea with someone and note what new insight comes as you explain it.

Is Beyond Past Lives good for beginners?

Yes. It starts with the basics of regression and includes exercises, so newcomers and experienced readers can both use it.

Read John’s full story in Beyond Past Lives, or book a 1:1 session with me.

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Latest comments (12)

  • Janis Eason•

    I would like to know how much a past life regression session would cost

  • Patti Tahan•

    Very interested in having a regression session with you!
    Please contact me for a appointment!
    Respectfully,
    Patti

  • Pauline Marshall•

    I live in Prince George BC Canada and have been searching to learn more about my higher self and I believe that a past life regression would be very healing for me. Can you help direct me ?

  • Connie•

    I listen with interest to your conversation with Dr. Wayne Dyer. Can having health issues be a past life. My friend is always sick. I myself have knee pain alot. I truly believe in a higher self, in a purpose. I know that i was sent here for a purpose. sometimes that is very hard to figure out. I also am trying to be a positive force in the things i do. I work amongst so much negative energy and mire. It is hard to be positive for all. Thank you to people like you that do such good work. Any comments?

  • pat•

    I worry about my husband who passed oct 27,2010 . And how to survive now

  • Felicia•

    I used pastlife regression to heal from anaphylatic allergy to eggs and milk. I was a farmer in the 1800’s who lost his entire family to starvation. It was the year there was no summer, 1816. I had only seen glimpses of that lifetime over several years when I first learned to do PLR. The images along with messages from my spirit guides as signs in my present day life told the complete story. One afternoon I was extremely tired, I laid down shut my eyes and immediately saw my spirit guides and a scene that I was in where I had an actual conversation with farmer, heart to heart, mind to mind, I knew him by heart, we had the same heart and he was able to express his grief and anger over the loss of his family. I asked him to transform his anger into love, to think of each child as a bright shining star, his family as a beautiful galaxy of immortal beings that are all okay. Then I pleaded with him, I need to eat ice cream! And then I made a promise to eat healthy. Lastly, I told him, If I’m healthy he will be healthy. That was the end of that meditation. Then sometime later I laid down again and before me in my third eye I saw my spirit guides, I saw the farmers face, and I saw the face of Jesus. When I sat up alert I knew I was healed. I felt beautiful light and happy, I intutively knew my allergy was gone. It did take me a few months to trust and try the milk and eggs but I eventually did and I no longer reacted to them.

    I was instructed by my spirit guides to practice Kundalini yoga, eat clean food, pray and meditate
    Imagine if each and every one of us heals each and every life we have ever lived how healthy the world could be. I did my part, And it was GOD who healed me.

  • Nathalie Gagnon•

    I had a regression few month ago, to understand a “story” of Me..
    It’s big…and I don’t know what to do with all this.. I would like to share… (but english is not my first language) . So….

    Over 121 lives in Tibet to live into a life of meditation, silence, illuminations, compassion and deep acceptance of love…

    After I has transport into a wild life of India during 7 life, where I was doing a doctor and caring for children with no money at all, no help to practice surgery and I was able to do everything by my own hand. I develop skills and magical hands.

    After those 7 life, there is Sri-Lanka (Island of India) where I was in contact with many peoples, because I was in the street selling Saris and parshmina… It was a weird way to be in contact we people and spoke to them, about love, spirituality, cards and our global capacity…

    And now.. In Canada.. with all those difficulties with democratic, money, superficiality of the economic world, capitalism and speed relations between one and other. I don’t know what to do, when, or why I should do something… because I’m feeling like I am not “always” from here…

    So.. May be I don’t understand when you say ” teach to understand” .. But it seems to be a big story to live now…

    Thanks to take a time for this story .. 🙂

  • Sheena M. Estanero•

    Thank you for your work, Mira. I was just listening to you and Dr. Wayne Dyer about past life regression. I have been meaning to have that kind of experience so I can discover more things about myself. But I am not sure how this could be done, there arent a lot of people like you here in my country, the Philippines. I would surely be following you and your work. Thank you again, you are inspirational!