Hello Mira, I wonder if it is my past that is making me feel so unhappy in my marriage of over 30 years. I don’t want to leave i am happy with much of what we have created together and i don’t want to create financial and emotional upheaval. But i feel frustrated with my husbands presence. His behaviour and personality is often annoying for me. I feel disconnected from him. Maybe I ignored my red flags and now I am with someone I don’t love. He is a kind and gentle man but also foolish in my eyes. I feel guilty that I don’t respect him. I am often sad and feel I have created a prison for myself.
Hello Mira, I wonder if it is my past that is making me feel so unhappy in my marriage of over 30 years. I don’t want to leave i am happy with much of what we have created together and i don’t want to create financial and emotional upheaval. But i feel frustrated with my husbands presence. His behaviour and personality is often annoying for me. I feel disconnected from him. Maybe I ignored my red flags and now I am with someone I don’t love. He is a kind and gentle man but also foolish in my eyes. I feel guilty that I don’t respect him. I am often sad and feel I have created a prison for myself.